The Fabulous Fifties and Beyond is part of the cable TV program and syndicated newspaper column of the same name. Our mantra is "Use It Or Lose It", urging those in the 50's and beyond age group to do something with the life they have remaining. Write a book, travel, volunteer...do something. We are looking for stories of individuals and groups that are "using it". Shows streaming at http://tv.westkentucky.kctcs.edu/videoclips/50s/
Showing posts with label optimism. Show all posts
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Tuesday, April 17, 2012
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Friday, February 17, 2012
Competency to Better Life
Competency to Better Life
Do you have the competency to better your
daily living and overall humane existence, or do you lack this character? To
better personal living you have to discover competence to take charge. In life
we have inner coaches, counselors, etc that help us to accomplish things in
life. We likewise have helpful authorities in the world who will take the time
to help those who find it hard to help self. You've a lot of options and
resources available to you.
Competency is earned. An individual with
competence will take what they learn and utilize it to solve different states
of affairs in their life. A competent individual always sees the new light at
the end of every tunnel.
When an individual has competence, he or
she feels joyous. A joyous individual will consider every incident, experience
and so forth in life as something they may learn from; as well this individual
won't allow bad weigh him or her down. The individual will take the bad; see
new light and continuing learning from his or her errors.
You'll have to learn how to suspend
judgments of self and other people. You're not the Man in control. Only one
spiritual being has the right to call judgment down on anybody. Let this Man
take the weight on His shoulders. You might need to pray often to cease judging
self and other people.
It's ok to have views, but when you don't
have facts to support your claims, why speak. Too many times individuals
suspect, offer opinions, speculate, or jump to conclusions, which has caused
major issues in the world. If you don't have facts behind you, or to support
what you say, be quiet. Allow somebody else in the world to make the next
error.
If you wish to live happier, you'll need to
build your energy. To build energy you'll need to eat right, exercise and take
great care of you. You'll need to associate with positive individuals and learn
to help others as well as yourself. The more effort you put forth, the more
you'll get back from your efforts.
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Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Altering Habits to Better Your Life
Altering Habits to Better Your Life
Habits, oh those foul habits. Habits are
acquired from training, influences, observance, and practice. We acquire a lot
of habits throughout our life, which some are goodness and others are foul.
Good habits we may keep, but if one wants to better their life the foul habits
have to take a hike. Eliminating bad habits however isn't simple, especially if
a dependency is involved. For this reason, we may learn how to change your
habits.
Individuals wander through life making
excuses. Anytime an individual sees something complicated, they'll frequently
make excuses why they can't deal with the issue. This is a rough-cut problem in
the world, which we’ve all heard 1000000000000s of times. If you're out to
better your life, you need to state, “This is something that blocks me from
accomplishment and I've the might to change it.
The first key to success is quit making
excuses. You are able to commit by choosing a fresh habit.
Today I'm going to quit judging other
people and myself. This is a common error individuals make in the world. They
spend time labeling other people and themselves. This gets them nowhere but in
a world of chaos.
Do you think negatively? I can’t alter
this. My life is full of bunk; I can’t swing it any longer. Why me? If you
spend your life believing negative and stating negative connotations, attempt
changing your ways today. For example, state, I may change something and I'm
going to. Rather than stating life is full of bunk, accept it as truth yet move
forward to make your life better.
Once you begin to make changes to improve
your life, begin small. Rather than jumping the gun, take little steps to
success. Too many times individuals try to change overnight. This only leads to
frustration.
When you're working to alter your life and
habits make certain you seek support and feedback. You don't have to walk the
road to success alone. Feedback is discovered at your library, the Net, at
colleges, etc. Ask somebody you trust to support you and provide you feedback
when required as well
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Monday, February 13, 2012
Establishing Courage to Better Life
Establishing Courage to Better Life
Once you establish courage, you begin to
better your life. Constructing courage will help you take risks to a brighter
future that you usually wouldn't take. When you establish courage, you put fear
behind you. Bravery is the process of admitting that you have dreads, yet
you're willing to determine a way to defeat those fears and not let these fears
take charge of you. It's ok to experience your fears at suitable times.
When you establish courage, you'll learn to
self-direct you in life. You'll learn to accept punishment and rewards
graciously. A courageous individual will frequently feel motivated to accept
blame and responsibility while critiquing their actions and utilizing what they
learn to move forward. Brave individuals will step to the front, instead of
stepping back when opportunities come their way. On the other hand, a brave
individual will step back and take a view at his or her errors gracefully.
An individual willing to better their life
will relax. This individual will relax even when plans fail. For example, if it
stormed the next day the individual will find something else to occupy his or
her time and feel just as happy about joining this adventure.
To get successful and better your life
you'll need to learn how to trust you. When you trust you, you are able to
trust others also. Regrettably, we live in a world where trust is difficult to
find, yet when you trust you, you can’t blame other people when things go
wrong.
Bettering your life includes utilizing your
creative and critical mind. When you can produce fresh ideas, you're off to the
road to success. You've many options in this world; it takes you to pull up
resources to find those choices.
Occasionally in life, we feel
uncomfortable. In fact, this is common. Are you willing to accept your
irritations? Maybe at an interview you feel lost. Are you willing to accept
this irritation and discover a way to deliver a great speech to impress the
interviewer? Alternatively, are you willing to allow negative energies cost you
the job.
Acceptance is your key to happiness. When
you are able to learn to accept the good with the bad, you are able to learn
how to live happier and better your life. If you can't accept however, well,
reread this material again.
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Wednesday, October 05, 2011
Are You Getting in the Way?
Too busy, too stressed, too important to give a
helping hand and make a difference? I believe that once we stop and get out of
our own way, we not only discover how much we have to give, but also that we
have much joy and richness to experience in that transaction.
Getting out of our busy mode and into our heart
occasionally, I'm certain that many of us would find at least one moment during
our day where we could pause, reflect on a situation, and see something that we
can do to make a difference in someone else's life.
The pace of life and work has increased a lot and I
daresay we don't give as much thought as we could to the circumstances of other
people's lives. Sometimes, we're so caught up in our own struggle that we don't
think we can even afford the time to "give" our time, suggestions,
talents, to others. And yet, if we do, we are rewarded.
We are often times, throughout our lives, able to
experience richness, synchronicity, and reward through small acts of
generosity. This isn't even about money, although sometimes the rewards will
impact our financial status as well. And yet, we fail too often when we are so
self-absorbed or consumed by our own situation thinking we'd give up too much
by helping.
So, this is just a gentle reminder for all of us to
pay attention to at least one "little thing" that will make a
difference for someone else. Try to make it for someone you don't know well or
don't know at all; family and friends are too easy and natural.
Jim and Jeanetta Pollard
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Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Be Happy! Happiness is just a Matter of Mind
Happiness
Giving Happiness
We all want happiness. We all need appreciation. We
all crave for recognition. We all want to be applauded. We all desire to be
called good and lovely human beings. We are all looking for this certificate from
our friends, family and our partner. This makes us happy. This makes us feel
good about ourselves. This gives us new confidence in ourselves. This all gives
us a new and positive self esteem, which is very important.
We all want happiness. We all need appreciation. We
all crave for recognition. We all want to be applauded. We all desire to be
called good and lovely human beings. We are all looking for this certificate from
our friends, family and our partner. This makes us happy. This makes us feel
good about ourselves. This gives us new confidence in ourselves. This all gives
us a new and positive self esteem, which is very important.
How to get it? Let us do all this for others. If no
one is praising us, let us praise others. Let us do all that we want others to
do to us. Let us give love, affection, appreciation, and let us applaud others
even for a very small victory. Will this help us? It helps us immediately. The
first feeling we get after doing a good deed is a feeling of satisfaction. This
raises our self esteem in our own eyes. This makes us feel good. By making
others happy, we get happiness. So let us become proactive and get all we want
by not asking for it, but giving it.
What will happen to others when they get such praise
from us? They will feel very happy. They will be happy with us. They will like
us even more. They will like to do something in return. They will do all that
we have been wishing for. Send happiness to get happiness. The shortest route
to a lovely life.
Happiness is a state of mind, when one feels
contented with oneself. One feels cheerful with one's life and circumstances.
Remaining unhappy is not our goal in life, but happiness is our goal. If we are
not happy, life become a burden. One lives, but only because one has no choice.
Why not make happiness a part of everyday living?
Jim and Jeanetta Pollard
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